We've been here a month now and I'll admit, this whole taking care of two children under 2 years old by myself thing has been a struggle:) I had help when I was living with my Aunt and Uncle...two extra set of hands to be exact so the past four weeks has been a challenge, physically and mentally. I've been kinda down, feeling defeated like all I'm doing is surviving and not getting ahead with anything...housework, laundry, "me" time, etc. I realize that this is just a phase but knew I needed to make an effort to do better managing my time so I created a Daily Schedule. It is very rigid and I know that each day isn't going to go the way I planned but I'll have to admit I've already gotten more done today than I have all week...guess I just needed a framework for my day. See below:
Daily Schedule
6:00 am CC Wake Up/Shower
6:30 am REC Wake up/Nurse/Dressed
7:30 am HRC Wake up/Barney while CC prepares breakfast
8:00 am REC Naptime/CC and HRC Breakfast, CC make bed
8:30 am HRC Dressed, Teeth Brushed/Playtime; CC Clean up from Breakfast and begin Laundry
9:00 am CC and HRC Playtime in Playroom
9:30 am CC switch Laundry/other chores
10:00 am REC Wake up/Nurse
10:30 am Playtime with both girls
11:00 am CC and HRC Lunch
11:30 am HRC Playtime/Barney; CC clean up kitchen from lunch; continue Laundry
12:00 pm REC Naptime, begin HRC Naptime Routine (milk, book, etc.)
12:30 pm HRC Naptime/Mommy Free Time (computer, TV, Magazine, Pilates video, etc.)
1:30 pm Dinner Preparation, straighten house
2:00 pm REC Wake up/Nurse
2:30 pm REC/Mommy playtime
3:00 pm Finish Laundry other chores
3:30 pm HRC Wake up and Snack
4:00 pm REC Naptime/CC Prepare Dinner/HRC Playtime
4:30 pm Tidy up House
5:00 pm Chores/Dinner
5:30 pm Dinner
6:00 pm REC Wake up/Cereal/Bottle; CC Clean up from Dinner; HRC Playtime with Daddy
6:30 pm Playtime with Daddy
7:00 pm Begin Bedtime Routine for Girls (baths, story time, etc.)
7:30 pm Continue Bedtime Routine
8:00 pm HRC Bedtime/Nurse REC then Bedtime
8:30 pm Time with Brett
10:00 pm CC Bedtime Routine
10:30 pm CC Lights Out
Schedule Appointments and Run errands between 10:00 am and 12:30 pm
BE FLEXIBLE…this is an ideal schedule! It is not always going to happen exactly as planned.
I'm obviously in my "free time" right now and probably should be napping since I got up at 6am and have been going since but so far I feel a huge sense of accomplishment...the house is relatively picked up, a weeks worth of laundry is done, girls are napping so I don't feel so guilty about watching TV and playing on the computer. We'll see how it goes...even if I can implement this schedule a few days a week I'll be pleased. If only I got paid by the hour:) Wish me luck!
5 years ago
Glad you've found something that works for you! Sorry its been difficult for you the past month... Melissa warned us, it IS much harder with two! :) I've just recently gotten to where things are easier and I'm more comfortable with our daily routine. Sonia would be proud of your schedule. :)
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